The lighter side of negativity: How to use humor to cope

This blog is for my friend, the most negative person I know. But don't worry, I'm here to help!

"Negativity is everywhere, but that doesn't mean you have to let it get you down."

Read my coping mechanism now...

Use your humor. Acknowledge that you are yourself a humourous person and make it work for you. 

Laugh at yourself yourself. If you think someone is coming heavy on you, laugh at yourself and let the heat dissipate in front of you, rather than anywhere else! Fancy this telling your body critics, "Thanks for the feedback! I'm working on a new look, I'm going to be the next big thing."

Vibe high. (As much as you can). Surround yourself with positive people. Does that help with your mood and outlook on life? Juz, make sure you feel good about yourself!

Ignore the negativity. Sometimes, the best way to deal with negativity is to simply ignore it. If someone is being negative, try to go talk to someone else or change the subject. 

While reading this piece, did anyone remember an old popular quote, "Laughter is the best medicine!"?

Musings of an ID Coffee lover

"I was certain that I'd not make it thru my probation. The stars have been kind to me this time! Can't believe I made it here!"

 

"Yes, this will be a game changer! You worked really hard and we're impressed."

 

Neeti had just moved to London from Bangalore. She's a young Indian woman in her late twenties and a developer by profession.

 

"In the first week of joining the team, although in probation, I was certain that I wanted to bring something special for everyone from Bangalore.

 

"And I knew that our office didn't have a pantry, so I brought you all some ID coffee decoction because you know how expensive food and beverage can be here."

 

“Justin: ID coffee? I've never heard of it.”

 

“Oh, ID is the name of an Indian coffee brand, without which I wouldn't be able to start my morning. The nicest coffee decoction I've tasted to this day! Just wanted to show a gesture of much I appreciate everyone here.”

 

“I love coffee!”, said Justin.

 

"You know, growing up in the South of India, filtered coffee or tea is a staple. We need a cup especially after a sumptuous breakfast of dosa and chutney."

She continues...

 

"Also, I can vouch I had never seen you on Zoom meetings without a coffee cup!"

Justin laughs and says, “Do you know, this coffee maker could cost five times more in London. This is a very thoughtful and generous gift. I would suggest you keep it for yourself, for your mornings."

 

"Not at all. I have put more thought into bringing these here."

 

The coffee connoisseurs finish their coffee and head back to their desks.

Neeti carefully pulls out a brown bag from her tote and sets it on her desk. She then began drafting an email.

Gourmet coffee from India

Happy to share some of the best coffee in the world with you all! Please come by my desk. Trust you all will love it.